If your man is insecure about his leadership abilities because he’s been torn down and discouraged by family, friends, co-workers, etc., then you can do the following:
Let him know how highly you think of him.
Build him up. Speak highly of him in front of others.
Encourage him in his areas of strengths, talents and skills.
Praise him for the good things he’s doing in his life and praise him for what he’s doing in your marriage and family.
Praise him when he’s starting to lead.
If you have a tendency to lead, then take a step back from being in control of your marriage and family life. Keep handing the reins over to your husband.
Pray for the Lord to give him a desire to grow as the leader of his family.
Ask him questions about how he wants things to happen in your marriage, family and home life. He may not have answers right away, but give him time to process. When he does know what he wants then make sure you follow his lead without grumbling, criticizing and second-guessing his decisions. Remember, you are wanting to build him up so he’ll continue to lead.
Let him know how highly you think of him.
Build him up. Speak highly of him in front of others.
Encourage him in his areas of strengths, talents and skills.
Praise him for the good things he’s doing in his life and praise him for what he’s doing in your marriage and family.
Praise him when he’s starting to lead.
If you have a tendency to lead, then take a step back from being in control of your marriage and family life. Keep handing the reins over to your husband.
Pray for the Lord to give him a desire to grow as the leader of his family.
Ask him questions about how he wants things to happen in your marriage, family and home life. He may not have answers right away, but give him time to process. When he does know what he wants then make sure you follow his lead without grumbling, criticizing and second-guessing his decisions. Remember, you are wanting to build him up so he’ll continue to lead.
In His Love
Leslene
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