If your husband is lacking leadership abilities because he didn't have a role model or his role model was a poor example while your man was growing up, you can do the following:

1. Pray for the Lord to bring Godly men into your husband’s life.
2. Encourage him to be in the Word of God. If this is not something he normally does, then make sure he sees you doing it. Your actions may spur him to get into the Word as well.
3. Encourage him to attend men’s conferences that are centered around the Word of God.
4. Encourage him to read books on Godly leadership that applies to marriage/parenting.
5. If he’s open to reading and learning, buy him a book or two for Christmas! But if he would be offended by this, then refrain from doing it.
6. Pray for the Lord to give him a desire to grow as the leader of his family.
7. If you’re leading, then take a step back so he can take a step forward.
8. Ask him questions about how he wants things to happen in your marriage, family and home life. He may not have answers right away, but give him time to process, and then when he does know what he wants, then follow his lead.
In His Love
Leslene
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